Funeral Etiquette: The Definitive Guide To Sympathy Flowers

Funerals are an emotionally charged time, and knowing how to express your condolences appropriately can be challenging. One of the most enduring traditions for conveying sympathy is through flowers. But what flowers are appropriate? Should you send them to the funeral or to the family’s home? This guide will walk you through everything you need to know about sending sympathy flowers, ensuring your gesture is both comforting and respectful.

Should I Send Flowers?

Flowers have been a staple in funeral traditions for centuries. They provide a sense of peace and beauty, symbolizing life, growth, and the cycle of nature. Beautiful blooms can express emotions and offer solace to grieving families when words fail.

Suitable Arrangements for the Service, Home, or Office

Different floral arrangements serve different purposes. Choosing the right kind is essential to ensure your gesture fits the setting.

For the Service

Memorial Service:

• Pedestal Arrangements and Standing Sprays are excellent choices. They are visible from a distance and add elegance to the service.

Graveside Service:

• Standing Sprays, Wreaths, Hearts, or even custom creations are appropriate. These arrangements honor the deceased and provide a beautiful tribute at the gravesite.

Celebration of Life:

• In a more celebratory context, Vase Arrangements, Standing Sprays, or Personalized Custom Florals help commemorate the deceased's life in a vibrant, uplifting manner.

For the Home or Office

Flower Arrangements:

• Sending a classic and simple arrangement to the home of immediate family members provides warmth and support during the lead-up to the funeral.  

Plants:

• Plants have a lasting impact and can enhance well-being while purifying the air. They brighten the home or office, offering a living tribute to the deceased.

Tributes:

• Inspirational and keepsake tributes, whether religious or military, can provide comfort and faith during grief.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do Sympathy Flowers Have to Be White?

While white flowers are traditional, celebrating the deceased’s life with bright, colorful blooms is increasingly popular. The choice of color often depends on the sender's personal preference and the cultural or religious practices of the bereaved family.

What is the Difference Between Funeral Flowers and Sympathy Flowers?

Funeral Flowers:

• These are usually sent directly to the funeral service or cremation site.

Sympathy Flowers:

• These are typically sent to the home or office of the deceased’s family.

How Much Should I Spend on an Arrangement?

The cost of a floral arrangement can range from $75 to $1,000, depending on the complexity and size. We offer a variety of arrangements and packages to meet your needs during these difficult times.

Choosing the Right Flowers

Each flower has a unique meaning and can convey your sentiments eloquently:

Lily: Symbolizes sympathy, majesty, and purity.

Rose: Represents love, respect, and courage.

Hydrangea: Conveys heartfelt emotion and understanding.

Orchid: Signifies admiration, innocence, and reverence.

Chrysanthemum: Denotes truth, grief, and loyalty.

Carnation: Stands for admiration, remembrance, and love.

Sample Card Messages

Finding the right words to express your condolences can be difficult. Here are some suggestions:

For a Friend:

"In loving memory of [Name], a true friend. We will miss you always."

"Thank you for bringing so much joy and fun to those around you. Rest in peace, dear friend."

For a Relative:

"[Name], you were always an inspiration to me. Your big heart and fierce love won’t be forgotten."

"I will treasure every moment we shared, missing you, until we meet again. Rest well."

For a Mother:

"Not a day goes by when I don’t think of all you did for me. Thank you for being the most amazing person and mother."

"Your mother was one of the warmest and most caring people I have had the pleasure of knowing. I am sorry for your great loss."

For a Father:

"I will love you forever, Dad. May you rest in peace with the angels."

"My condolences to you for the passing of your father. There will never be another man like him."

Download More Card Messages

If you’re looking for even more heartfelt messages to include in your sympathy cards, we've got you covered. Click here to download a comprehensive list of additional sympathy card messages.

Custom Arrangements

Looking for something unique? We pride ourselves on our custom arrangements, creating spectacular tributes that are both meaningful and unique. Our in-house design team can craft personalized designs that reflect the personal memories and experiences of the deceased.

How to Order Sympathy Flowers

To order, you’ll need the following information:

• Recipient’s name

• Full address and telephone number

• Service and viewing times

• Message for the card

Conclusion

Sending sympathy flowers is a heartfelt way to express your condolences and provide comfort during a difficult time. Whether you choose traditional white lilies or vibrant roses, the grieving family will appreciate your thoughtful gesture.

Don't hesitate to get in touch for more personalized services and expert advice. Order your sympathy arrangement today and show your support with the perfect floral tribute.